Considering that many kids today are growing up in environments where parents, extended family members and classmates are queer and a part of their everyday lives, recent national book bans have seriously stifled conversations around sexuality and gender identity for young people.
When basic discussions about these topics are silenced, it not only distorts children’s understanding of the world around them but it can also fictionalize a reality that leads to a lack of empathy and awareness.
This censorship doesn’t just affect LGBTQ+ youth – it erases their existence and experiences from the narrative altogether, leaving everyone, regardless of their background, to miss out on all-important perspectives that foster understanding and acceptance.
Reading books about LGBTQ+ life and identity is like opening a window to a vibrant world where all youngsters can see different ways of living while also giving some a chance to find themselves reflected in thoughtful and inclusive stories. Luckily today, there are hundreds of age-appropriate books that dive into themes of queer families, rich histories, gender expression and more, thanks to queer librarians, educators and booksellers who are eager to share their favorites.
These experts have put together an amazing lineup of recommendations that cater to kids of all ages. It’s a fantastic resource for nurturing a love of reading and promoting inclusivity, making sure every child feels seen and valued through the pages of a book. Whether it’s vibrant picture books that celebrate the beauty of different family structures or engaging middle-grade novels that dive into themes of identity and belonging, this edited collection of submissions has it all.
So, if you’re on the hunt for captivating reads that align with today’s values and teach important life lessons, look no further – this lineup is a must-check-out for anyone passionate about enriching young minds through literature!
Picture Books for Young Children
Federico and All His Families by Mili Hernández, illustrated by Gómez
This colorful board book captures the heartwarming adventures of a helpful neighborhood cat who makes his rounds to visit various families as they kick off their day. It showcases a delightful mix of family structures, including those with two moms, two dads, single parents, and grandparents raising their grandchildren.
A charming tale that has been celebrated for its “incidental representation,” subtly weaving in the rich tapestry of family diversity without making it the central theme, Federico and All His Families allows children to see and appreciate different kinds of families as just a natural part of life.
When Aidan Became a Brother by Kyle Lukoff, illustrated by Kaylani Juanita
When Aidan Became a Brother comes highly recommended by queer librarians and booksellers alike, and it’s easy to see why. This heartwarming story beautifully captures the journey of a family as they navigate the complexities of their son Aidan’s emerging trans identity while also preparing to welcome a new addition to their family.
“When Aidan was born, everyone thought he was a girl,” the book starts. But as Aidan grew older, he began to realize he was “a different type of boy.” Although “it was hard to tell his parents what he knew about himself, it was even harder not to.”
Chicago bookstore owner Sarah Hollenbeck has noticed a heartwarming trend among parents of transgender kids who have been picking up a particular book that resonates with their experiences. She describes how these parents have responded to the book’s generous spirit, appreciating the way it validates their children’s identities and feelings.
“(Aidan’s) parents have this beautiful moment of accountability with their child about having made some mistakes by raising him in the wrong gender,” Hollenbeck told the New York Times. “I am so grateful to have that kind of message in the world.”
Books for First Through Third-graders
Glenn Burke, Game Changer: The Man Who Invented the High Five by Phil Bildner, illustrated by Daniel J. O’Brien
In an inspiring picture book biography, readers are introduced to Glenn Burke, a true trailblazer in Major League Baseball. He made history as the first player to come out as gay who also gave the world the high five, an iconic gesture that transcends the sport itself.
Playing for the Los Angeles Dodgers during the late 1970s, Burke was a dynamic player known for his incredible hitting, throwing, running, and fielding skills, but what truly set him apart was his infectious enthusiasm for the game and his teammates. However, despite this joyous contribution to sports culture, he faced significant challenges as a gay Black man in a time when acceptance was anything but guaranteed.
Educators say this book does a fantastic job of highlighting not only Burke’s remarkable talent and the fun spirit he brought to the Dodgers’ clubhouse but also the struggles he endured in a world that often didn’t embrace him. With each turn of the page, readers are reminded of the bravery it took for him to live his truth and the impact he made not just on the field but also in the hearts of many who seek acceptance and recognition.
Marley’s Pride by Joëlle Retener, illustrated by DeAnn Wiley
Marley is a little nonbinary kid navigating a world filled with big anxieties. Crowds? No way! Loud noises? Definitely not! But when their beloved grandparent, Zaza, is nominated for an award at the Pride parade, Marley feels a spark of determination to face their fears and be there to cheer them on.
This heartwarming story captures the essence of community and love as Marley embarks on a journey that’s as much about self-discovery as it is about supporting family. Through colorful scenes of joy and celebration, we see Marley begin to unravel their anxieties, discovering that the vibrant energy of the parade can be a source of empowerment.
I Am Perfectly Designed by Karamo Brown with Jason Rachel Brown, illustrated by Anoosha Syed
As they strolled hand in hand through their lively neighborhood, filled with the laughter of diverse families, a young Black boy glanced up at his father, his eyes wide with curiosity and admiration. “Dad, why do we always see so many different kinds of people here?” he asked. His father smiled softly, a warmth radiating from his heart, and replied, “Because this is a place where everyone is celebrated for who they are, and love comes in many beautiful forms.”
I Am Perfectly Designed encapsulates the universal emotions tied to the love between parents and children, using simple yet elegant phrases that resonate deeply with readers of all ages. What sets it apart is its ability to center the narrative around everyday activities that many families experience, making the love it depicts feel both relatable and authentic.
Books for Middle-schoolers and Up
Prince of the Palisades by Julian Winters
In a whirlwind of unexpected events, roguish Prince Jadon of Îles de la Rêverie finds himself stranded in America, tasked with mending his tarnished reputation after a cringe-worthy public breakup that has gone viral. With romance firmly off the agenda, his days are filled with private school, meticulously orchestrated photo ops featuring adorable puppies and appearances at high-society gatherings in Santa Monica.
However, as the days unfold, Jadon finds himself unexpectedly drawn to a not-so-royal American boy who challenges traditional notions of leadership and duty. In this chaotic journey of self-discovery, Jadon begins to understand that perhaps being a true leader means embracing authenticity and that he can become someone’s Prince Charming simply by being genuine. As he navigates the complexities of love, friendship, and the expectations of royalty, Jadon dares to dream that, just maybe, he can win over not only his nation but also his own heart in the process.
Spells to Forget Us by Aislinn Brophy
In the bustling city of Boston, we meet Luna, a powerful witch with an undeniable reputation for her extraordinary skills in the arcane arts. She’s equally notorious for her fiery temper, which makes her both respected and feared among the magical community. With the weight of her family’s legacy pressing down on her, Luna finds herself on the verge of becoming the head of the Witch Council – a title that comes with immense responsibility and expectations that she never wanted.
Meanwhile, Aoife navigates a world devoid of magic, a non-magical girl raised in the glaring spotlight of her influencer parents. Unlike Luna’s intense and mystical life, Aoife yearns for a sense of normalcy and privacy, longing to escape the constant scrutiny that seems to follow her every move.
Their worlds collide when fate brings them together, igniting a romance that defies the odds. Just as their relationship begins to blossom, Luna, bound by the laws of magic, casts a spell that will erase Aoife’s memories should they ever part ways. It’s a risky move, revealing both the depth of Luna’s feelings and the gravity of their situation. When the inevitable happens, and they decide to break things off, it’s not just Aoife who loses the memories of their shared moments.
Spells to Forget Us is a wonderful mix of magic, heartache, and the undeniable truth that sometimes, love is worth fighting for, no matter the odds stacked against you.
